Не каждый взрослый — взрослый. Как стать взрослым.
Чем взрослый отличается от ребенка
Не каждый взрослый — взрослый.
Ребенок мало что умеет, мало что может. Это естественно. Ребенка кормят родители, одевают, обучают. Ребенок зависит от взрослых.
Ребенок не достаточно самостоятелен, повзрослев – становится самостоятельным.
Ребенок учится жить, а пока не умеет – совершает много ошибок. Ему это разрешается. Ответственность за ребенка и его ошибки несут его родители.
Ребенок не несет ответственность за себя и свои действия, в отличии от взрослого.
Ребенок мало что знает и умеет. И поэтому не уверен в себе, в своих возможностях.
Ребенок не достаточно уверен в себе.
Дети рождаются маленькими, беспомощными. Благодаря трудностям развиваются, как физически, так и психологически. Но никто не упрекнет ребенка в его слабости.
Детям разрешается быть слабыми.
Взрослые умиляются от детских страхов. Еще бы! Целый мир неизвестного, загадочного. Многое пугает, страшит. Борясь со страхом, дети становятся смелее.
Детям свойственно боятся.
Дети учатся, пробуют, экспериментируют, ошибаются.
Приобретают знания и опыт. Мудрость.
А еще дети балуются, резвятся, шумят. Чудачат. Читают сказки, верят в чудеса. Но взрослые тоже балуются и шумят. И взрослые игры бывают более грандиозными, чем детские. Но мы не об этом. А о принципиальной разнице между взрослыми и детьми.
Итак, взрослый – это зрелый человек, ребенок – незрелый.
Взрослый, согласно определению в энциклопедии:
Человек, достигший определённого возраста, и по отношению к которому есть основания предполагать, что он обладает телесной и ментальной зрелостью. Взрослый индивид располагает теми необходимыми знаниями и умениями, которые позволяют ему принимать решения, важные на его жизненном пути.
Взрослому человеку присущи такие качества, как:
Самостоятельность
Ответсвенность
Уверенные в себе
Сила, и физическая, и психологическая
Смелость
Мудрость
Есть и другие качества, но, для нашего разговора, достаточно этих.
А если какого-то качества у взрослого человека не хватает? Тогда это еще не достаточно взрослый человек. Он до сих пор зависит от родителей или от других людей, которые заменяют ему родителей.
Ему нужно и важно повзрослеть!
Почему?
В чем выгода быть взрослым?
Детьми быть хорошо! Живи и радуйся жизни!
Но эта радость до поры до времени. Пока есть защитники, или другие опекуны.
А как жить самому?
Первое, с чем сталкивает не повзрослевший человек – неуверенность в себе.
Отсюда неудовлетворенность жизнью и депрессии.
Взрослые люди легко ставят смелые цели, и достигают их.
Но сложно добиться таких целей не повзрослевшим людям. Кому страхи мешают, кому силы воли не хватает. Кто просто не умеет преодолевать проблемы и трудности.
Недостаточно взрослые люди часто предъявляют окружающим людям претензии. Чтобы о них заботились.
Удивляюсь взрослым мужчинам, которые не умеют готовить.
Претензии перерастают в конфликты.
К примеру, большинство конфликтов супругов начинаются потому, что супруги не повзрослели, и пытаются наделить обязанностями друг друга. Об этом будет позже.
Взрослые фактически не знают, что такое лень. А как много людей задают вопросы о том, как сделать так, чтобы не лениться? Ответ: «Стать взрослым!»
В чем фокус? Будет об этом позже, обязательно.
Взрослые люди по настоящему счастливы лишь потому, что их счастье зависит от них самих.
Счастье детей напрямую зависит от родителей или опекунов.
Взрослых людей любят и уважают. Они сами делают свою жизнь. Сами устанавливают правила своей жизни.
По-моему, достаточная выгода, чтобы приложить усилия, и сделать себя взрослым.
Недостаточно взрослые люди
Таких большинство. Кто недостаточно смелый. Кто не мудрый. Или безответственный.
И живут ведь
Большинство людей недостаточно смелые. К примеру, женщины. Чего-то боятся. Но… ведь у них есть смелые мужья. Эти мужья зарабатывают деньги, решают проблемы, в том числе и проблемы своих жен. Зачем смелость? Есть надежная опора, в случае чего. Но я не назову такого человека достаточно взрослым. Потому что сам он в этой жизни не проживет так, как этого хочет.
Смелость можно развить в любом возрасте. Ее полезно развивать, как мужчинам, так и женщинам.
Ответственность – вроде бы не такое уж и важное качество. И не все взрослые стараются его развивать. Но без этого качества, к примеру, невозможно стать лидером.
А кто пойдет за безответсвенным? Кто будет с таким сотрудничать?
Сила и энергичность – тоже важные качества. От них и здоровье зависит, и достижение больших целей.
Какую бы мне книгу почитать, чтобы стать сильнее?
Чаще всего ко мне, как к психологу, обращаются люди по поводу развития уверенности в себе. Но хотят это получить быстрым способом. Что-то узнать-понять: и всё!
И удивляются, когда я начинаю им объяснять про самостоятельность, ответственность и другие сложности.
Знать мало – нужно еще и делать, и достаточно много делать.
А еще часто спрашивают о том, как бороться со страхами. И удивляются тому, что я им рекомендую развивать смелость.
Да, мы будем много говорить о полезных стратегиях. Но ключевым моментом будет практика. На протяжении долгого времени. До тех пор, пока будет получен результат: счастливый взрослый человек.
Я хорошо разбираюсь в психологии, и традиционно и нетрадиционной, НЛП, Эриксоновском гипнозе. Имею сертификаты, свидетельства и уважение… Знаю всякие «фишки» и «действенные методы». Как тренер, все это умею использовать на практике.
Меня, как тренера, всегда интересовало лишь то, что будет работать у моих клиентов долго и надежно. Чтобы обучение было быстрым и качественным. Без вредных последствий.
Все эти методы: быстрые, качественные, надежные, проверенные находятся здесь. Читайте.
Есть и другие методы. Не буду их оспаривать, но пусть ими занимаются другие специалисты.
Мы люди, часто ленивые, спешащие и торопящиеся. Нам бы побыстрее. Вот и гоняемся за всякими «фишками», умными фразами. Чтобы нам внушили – и всё! Чтобы мы поняли – и стали сразу же другими. И снова заниматься своими делами. По кругу. Записаться в тренажерный зал или на танцы аж на пол года – это долго. Пробежки, занятие спортом – напряжно.
А можно почитать умную книжку – и стать сразу же уверенным в себе?
А можно прыгнуть один раз с парашютом и стать смелым?
Приходит юноша, спрашивает: — Я слышал, вы мастер НЛП. Внушите мне что-нибудь, чтобы я стал уверенным в себе. Немного поговорив с парнем, я понял, что ему нужен именно фокус, и ничего другого. Это просто. Тем более мне была нужна практика. Ввожу в транс, что-то рассказываю об уверенности, закрепляю, проверяю. Хотя, в данном случае, подошла бы одна простая фраза: — Ты уверен в себе! Проходит латентный период. Парень довольный, глаза светятся. Вот теперь, когда он получил то, что хотел, начинаю работу таким вопросом: — Что бы ты выбрал: чтобы тебя научили водить автомобиль под гипнозом, или обычным способом, с инструктором и практикой вождения? — А что, такое бывает? — Элементарно, поехал бы по любой ровной дороге. — А в городе врезался бы в кого-нибудь! — Да, врезался бы! Сейчас ты стал увереннее в себе точно так же. До первого препятствия.
Поговорили. И, согласившись со мной, парень пообещал купить абонемент в тренажерный зал и записаться на айкидо. Это то, что ему и не хватало. А через пару лет он пришел ко мне обучаться ораторскому искусству. Это был уже совсем другой парень, физически окрепший, с чудесной улыбкой и уверенным взглядом.
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That would be equivalent to telling the monks here that he was a rookie who couldn t even use the magic weapon.Li Shiming had no intention of helping. He was already lucky to be able to kill a monk in the late stage of Qi refining of Xuanming Sect.
However, his current spiritual thoughts were still somewhat insufficient, at least in his opinion.Maybe it s not cost effective to sell these items at fixed stalls, or maybe fixed stalls don t accept these items.
Wang Chengjun and another demon cultivator spit out a mouthful of blood.So at this time, he was already thinking that after catching up with Li Yuanba, he would not rush to kill Li Yuanba.
This most important treasure is naturally the safest to carry with you.But the mid stage foundation building monks who understand the formation and can find the nodes of the formation are not among them.
That transformed Refining corpses is fun Ren Fei er wasn t really angry, she told the anecdotes she knew.
